What does it mean to be a real escort girl?
Since I have been working in this field for more than a year, I look at it differently than if I only heard about it from the outside. I am a simple person and easily perceive many things. People have a stereotype, escort is prostitution. I want to think that I am not a whore, I am not a whore, I am a companion for good time and pleasure. I do not always have sex with my client. It often happens that a person comes from another country or city and does not know anyone here, but wants to talk with someone, have a good time, for example, go to a restaurant or go to dance. In such cases, the time we spend together can usually be 12, 24 or even 48 hours. Usually I have to show the city, for example. Helsinki, show a good restaurant or other good place. Thus, I should not only open my legs and think about the sexual desires of men, but also be intelligent enough, both internally and visually, so that I would not be ashamed to go into society. I am a good conversationalist, for those who need it.
How did your escort adventure begin?
I worked in the service sector for some time, then became pregnant, after a child was born, who is now 5 years old. Before I lived, I lived with my boyfriend abroad, but there was nobody there who could help me with raising a child, and I also did not have a desire to stay at home, there was no money either. On this basis, my relationship with my friend escalated, after which we broke up, and I decided to go to Finland with my baby. At that time, in Finland, in Espoo, my parents lived, on whom I could count. My parents looked after my child, and I began to look for work, I missed my job. Once I came across an ad that said: “We are looking for a saprovadnitsa” the work seemed attractive to me, I got in touch with the work of the parents and agreed on a meeting. During the interview, the employee hinted to me that the work is not as innocent as it could be in advertising. It was a difficult decision that I had to make. I wonder if I can overcome this - how will I live with it? But I know what I want to live well! I accepted the offer and still do not regret it. A professional photographer, stylist and makeup artist was hired for me. I was made up, dressed and made a photo shoot, all at a very high level. I know that many will blame me, but I’m better off making money than giving myself to a regular booby tourist in a club for free.
What men come to you?
Usually these are men over 40 years old. Well-groomed men who look much younger than they really are. Of course, there are young men aged 20-30 years, but they are fewer. Men come very charming, gentle, very attentive, they increase self-esteem, express a lot of different pleasant compliments. I meet with men mostly in hotels or apartments.
What was your first time as an escort girl?
Usually girls not only sit in one place, but often their client wants to take the girl to another country. That is what happened to me, I was first invited to Tallinn, Estonia. A five-star hotel was booked for me with a view of the very center of Tallinn, of course, everything was paid. It was a great adventure. It’s quite difficult to describe feelings when you don’t know what awaits you. A lot of excitement about how everything goes, will I do it right? I was lucky that my first client was a young, handsome Estonian, with whom I did not even have sex. I became his secretary for a day. We had a good time walking around the city, having dinner at a restaurant, we had our own oddities, but overall this was the first time positive. I was especially pleased with the contents of my wallet.
What nationality do you like most?
All individually. I was one very experienced Korean, who is over 40 and who I had unforgettable sex, I would love to repeat. I had many people of different nationalities: the British, Indians, Swedes, Spaniards, Italians, Estonians, Russians, Turks. There was an American on his shoulder crying, but in bed he was very skilled. Everything is very fast with Turkish men, they talk a lot, but usually their abilities are so small, rarely longer than two minutes - they do not hold. But, as I said, everything is very individual.
How long have you been doing this -intimate service?
This is a difficult question, it is impossible to combine work on an escort with my personal life, so I will do this until I find a stout identity. At this job, you quickly get used to the money. I do not want a relationship where a man without money, with one love you will not be fed!
How much do you earn?
I take 200 euros for one hour, usually it turns out even more, because you get paid for dinner, take-offs, various spa treatments. I have a great time in a good male company.
How do you spend your free time?
I try to devote time to my child, this is fun time for the child. Morning workouts in the gym cause I have to look good
Tell me one day out of your life!
Every day is different for me, I never know what will happen tomorrow and where I will be. Maybe I will have to prepare for an evening show, for example. Striptease or role-playing games can also invite me to take part in a cultural event.
Who cares about your baby?
My parents, or I take a nanny if necessary.
Do you have to dress like something special?
It depends on the wishes of customers, if this is a hospitable event, I dress accordingly for this event, if this is a role-playing game, then the outfit is different.
Have you ever refused a customer?
Personally, I have never had such a thing; drunk men I refuse once on the phone.
How do you feel like an escort girl?
Honestly, I feel very good. I make good money and have a wonderful life. They can discuss me they say, how can I have sex with a stranger and if he still does not like? But at work, I am a completely different person, you perceive it as work, and the mind perceives it differently. I like to meet new people, to learn something new, sometimes I want to have the same sex, I have every chance to prove myself. I tried many things that I probably would never have tried while working in another job. Threesome or even sixter sex is a sexual fantasy that I can fulfill, and usually it’s not disgusting perverts, but everything is always beautiful and pleasant.
What are the taboos?
I do not like anal sex. And I choose whether it is possible or not.
Do your relatives know about your profession?
I have close friends who know who never reproached me, but always supported me. Mom doesn’t know anything.
What is your conclusion about men?
Men are different, and appearance can be misleading. For example, an ideal husband, a father with many children, an ideal in any area that you will never think that something is wrong, usually uses the services of escort women on vacation. I would like to believe in something sacred, but experience shows the opposite.